i am submissive by nature, however in my day to day vanilla life, im a professional in my career. some days i just want to be able to let go and say take over and let me just melt away. take the reigns, take control and let me just let go of all the stress in my life..
i have been in the lifestyle several years, this is not just about sex for me.. get into my mind and the rest will follow. looking for a Friend, Lover, Dominant in and out of the bedroom. the One who will push my limits and cuddle with me as i come out of sub space. Looking for a long lasting D/s or M/s relationship.
a little bit about me, besides the bdsm part. I love the outdoors and anything to do with the outdoors. I love the Broncos even though im from Chicago originally. for the rest of the sports. White Sox, BlackHawks, and Bulls, but Lakers are ok too...
I am DD free, dont smoke and an occasional drink now and then but make sure it's a fufu drink... Yes I know this is a bdsm site. but how else do you find somebody your compatible with besides getting the same ol same ol type of messages. before i will submit, i want to find out if we have any sort of connection. its about LTR!!!!
what i am looking for.
i am not only looking for my Dominant, my Daddy, My Master, i am also looking for my Best Friend, My Lover, My Husband. somebody to grow in the lifestyle with. Now I know some of You out there are saying that, a slave has no say in what she gets. and my response with all due respect is, i dont start off as a slave, i dont submit, just because You command me to. it comes with faith and trust and as the relationship grows.
If i am offending anyone or they dont agree with my views. im fine with that. i may not be right for You. i may not be the right person for many and im ok with that. we can agree to disagree.
New test as of 6/26/17
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
96% Slave
91% Masochist
87% Experimentalist
80% Primal (Prey)
75% Pet
70% Boy/Girl
65% Exhibitionist
64% Degradee
59% Ageplayer
50% Voyeur
36% Non-monogamist
36% Brat
2% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Dominant
0% Vanilla
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Switch
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My Ideal Person:
a person should be able to Master Himself, before He tries to Master another. Get into her mind and the rest will follow, not between her legs...be secure in life. You dont have to be rich, but live on Your own and be able to pay Your own bills. be single with little baggage, as everyone has some sort of baggage. be respectful at least until You know the submissive or slave. have interests outside the lifestyle as you can still live the lifestyle 24/7. and be able to hold an intelligent conversation of more then 5 or 6 words.
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